Week 1: Follow Your Heart
This is the opportunity for your group to discover what God might be saying to you out of the
weekend experience, and how you can respond through a group discussion.
*These questions are designed to help you create meaningful conversations. Adjust the
questions as needed, and don’t feel like you need to answer all of them.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
Start Off
1. We kicked off the series “Not Jesus: Things Jesus Never Said” with the saying “follow your
heart.” Why do you think “follow your heart” is such a popular message in culture?
2. Can you think of a decision where you “followed your heart” and let feelings lead more than
wisdom or faith? What happened?
Reflect on What Jesus Said
3. Read Luke 14:27-30. From this passage, we looked at the following guardrail for decision-
making: “Count the cost before you make the call.” How can counting the cost help with
making a good decision?
4. Read Matthew 6:22-23 and Proverbs 4:23. These passages encourage us to “Guard
what shapes your heart.” What are some common “inputs” (social media, entertainment,
relationships) that most influence your heart right now?
5. Read Matthew 6:31-34. The third guardrail for us was “Seek first, decide second.” What
does it practically look like for you to seek God first before making decisions?
Go Deeper
6. Where in your life are you most tempted to follow your feelings right now?
7. What is one decision you need to slow down and “count the cost” on this week?
8. How would your life look differently if you consistently put God first in decisions?
PRAY: Let’s end our time praying together. You can say something like: “God, help us this
week to seek you first in each decision — big and small – and to pause … then follow your
lead. Amen.”
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