This is the opportunity for your group will discover what God might be saying to you out of the weekend experience, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

*These questions are designed to help you create meaningful conversations. Adjust the questions as needed, and don’t feel like you need to answer all of them.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 

1. What stood out to you most from the message this past weekend? What do you believe God may be saying to you?
2. Why do you think that stood out to you? What do you think God might be trying to say? (It’s ok if you’re just guessing. This will give you some space to process what it might be.)
3. What negative relationship games did your family of origin play? Blame? Shame? Comparison? Something else? Did you carry any of that forward into your adult life?
4. What games get played in your key relationships?  (Change Game | Guessing Game | Guilt Game | Blame Game | Comparison Game | Shame Game | Family of Origin Game | Motive Assignment Game)
5. Who do you know who treats others like they’re more important than themselves? What makes you say that?
6. Identify one relationship where the Honor Game is difficult to play. Now, identify your first move
7. Wrap It Up. Now share a prayer request for the week. Make sure to go around the circle and pray for each other at the end of your meeting, and throughout the week.

This is the opportunity for your group will discover what God might be saying to you out of the weekend experience, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

*These questions are designed to help you create meaningful conversations. Adjust the questions as needed, and don’t feel like you need to answer all of them.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 

1. What stood out to you most from the message this past weekend? What do you believe God may be saying to you?
2. Why do you think that stood out to you? What do you think God might be trying to say? (It’s ok if you’re just guessing. This will give you some space to process what it might be.)
3. When you played games or sports as a child, were you a good loser? How did you handle winning?
4. Which comparison are you most tempted to fall into: upward comparison (focusing on someone we see as better than us) or downward comparison (focusing on someone we see as worse than us)?
5. What is your greatest ambition in life right now? Have you stopped to think about what it is costing you to pursue it
6. Which of these would be more helpful for you to focus on this week:

-Run your race

-Fix your focus on Jesus

-Name three things you are grateful for

7. Wrap It Up. Now share a prayer request for the week. Make sure to go around the circle and pray for each other at the end of your meeting, and throughout the week.

This is the opportunity for your group will discover what God might be saying to you out of the weekend experience, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

*These questions are designed to help you create meaningful conversations. Adjust the questions as needed, and don’t feel like you need to answer all of them.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What stood out to you most from the message this past weekend? What do you believe God may be saying to you?
2. Why do you think that stood out to you? What do you think God might be trying to say? (It’s ok if you’re just guessing. This will give you some space to process what it might be.)
3. Where have you seen a leader fall into the trap of the blame game by choosing to assign responsibility rather than assume responsibility?
4. We often take on a role when playing the blame game: the role of judge (taking a position of moral authority) or the role of victim (opening the door to complain). Which role do you tend to take on?
5. Curt talks about the difficulty of assuming responsibility for something that isn’t our fault. Why do you think it’s important to still take responsibility?
6. We combat the blame game by building our capacity to take responsibility.  What is one practical way you can start to do that in a current relationship or situation in your life?
7. Wrap It Up. Now share a prayer request for the week. Make sure to go around the circle and pray for each other at the end of your meeting, and throughout the week